How an 18 year old Mexican woman made it in Vancouver, Canada.
I often forget the struggles that brought me here, but it's a reminder that determination can lead you anywhere.
Leaving Mexico on my 18th birthday with only $1000, fear and dreams propelled me forward.
As the child of divorced parents who went through financial struggles, my hope was to escape Mexico's socioeconomic constraints and cultural norms.
So, I dreamed of leaving, unaware of the challenges and joys ahead.
Coming to Canada is incredible for many reasons: it’s safe, clean, and people are polite. However, immigrating can be isolating and lead to self-doubt. Every setback may reinforce feelings of inadequacy, causing you to doubt every word you say and every step you make, to the point where you question if you even deserve to be here.
I was an A-straight student in Mexico, but my grades dropped when I began school here due to the emotional, physical and financial burdens I faced. I had to adapt to a new language, culture, and city, all while dealing with loneliness and financial challenges. International students, like myself, bear the burden of exorbitant school fees without financial assistance or emotional support.
Nevertheless, I completed my degree in International Business. It took years of hard work and determination. I networked, volunteered, worked various jobs, made friends, and experienced heartbreak… In many different ways. Despite exhaustion and loneliness, I remained grateful for the opportunity to be here and envisioned a better future for myself.
Over time, my efforts paid off as opportunities started to come up. I’ve met mentors and colleagues that saw my potential and have helped me cultivate and grow it. I am not perfect though. I still fail, feel frustrated, sad and insecure sometimes. BUT, what keeps me going is always the ‘what if?’ - what if I try this? what if something great happens? Curiosity has helped me discover myself and opened doors I never imagined I would have access to.
I am now in a position where I can support others who are are facing some of the same challenges, and that brings me so much joy. I have loved living in Canada and travelling the world because it has exposed me to different ways of thinking and living. I know this would have taken me a longer time to learn had I stayed in my comfort zone back in Mexico.
If you have made it this far, THANK YOU.
The reason I share my story is because I want people to know they are not alone. I will always do what I can to help anyone who is struggling because I want them to see their potential and push forward.
If my story resonated with you, please reach out. I would love to hear from you.
With love & gratitude
Ana
